As most know Alexis had to return to Missouri this weekend. Jim returned at 1:00 this morning after 30 hours of round trip travel. Frankly I've been too upset to even blog but I think I'm beginning to gain some perspective and can hopefully not rant or whine when I address the circumstances regarding her return home.
Jim and I obtained the paperwork, per instructions given by the local elementary school, needed to make custodial decisions on Alexis's behalf, including enrollment in school. What they,and until this week, we were unaware of, is that these documents were not legal internationally. Upon enrolling her in school her documents were sent to an "international education committee"(I'm sure there is an official organizational title, but I'm not sure exactly what it is) informed us that our custodial status over her is not recognized in Canada and that we had two choices in the matter, 1. Go to the BC government and begin the process of legally adopting her....umm, not an option, thank you or 2. pay $12,000 for 9 months of education. Neither options were acceptable and while we could have possibly fought this had we the time or money(of which we have neither) I personally did not want to find myself at odds with the Canadian government that, along with the U.S. State Department is responsible for bringing me to BC.
So, in less than three days we bought a round trip ticket for Jim and a one-way ticket for Alexis, packed four huge bags filled with as many of her belongings as we could stuff in them, and with many tears,had Jim escort her to KC. Words really can't express how sad I am to see her go but with the situation we were faced with I'm not sure what other options we had.
PICTURES FROM THE PAST WEEK

One of the last really warm days that we had

Alexis and Lauren



Criminology Dept. at SFU
Alexis spent the entire day with me while I attended the new graduate student orientation. Even though she was bored she was a real trooper. Numerous individuals commented on her wonderful behavior and teased her about being the youngest graduate student they'd ever met!


Scenes from around campus